Loyalty only to Her.

As a guy, you are going to be tempted by many things. Loyalty to a girl is important though. Don’t find yourself “looking” at other girls. Don’t feel like you need to keep your options open, you have a girlfriend and she is all you need. These things make her feel inferior to other girls and causes her to feel desperate to change. It makes her feel as though she is not good enough. She will always feel like she is in a competition; make her feel as though she is the only one you will ever need. Always put her first and never make her feel left out. You have to keep her “in the loop.” She trusts you, so do not take that for granted.

To make her feel as though you are being loyal to her, there are many things that you can do. Take her out often. Make her feel as though she is always getting the special treatment. By doing this, you make her feel important and that she is the only one for you. Always remind her of how beautiful she is. Through this, she will not feel self-conscious about herself and feel like she needs to change. Remind her of the reasons that you fell for her. All these things and many others will let her know that she is the one and that you will not leave her.

This creates trust in a relationship. Though you have this trust, this does not mean you have the right to be with other women behind her back. Relationships are not meant to be about sabotage and covert operations; it’s about commitment and compassion. Being truthful and loyal to the person that you love the most. To them, that is all that matters. The second you be with another woman or find another woman more attractive, to her the relationship might as well be over. Loyalty is important. It determines how a relationship starts and possibly ends. I don’t know about you, but I do not find this a good way for a relationship to end. Loyalty should not be taken lightly, it is the center of all relationships. It is our foundation and what truly makes a good relationship, good. Without loyalty, there is no trust. Without trust, there is no relationship. Until next time, I leave you with this quote - “Commitment is great, but loyalty shows true love.”