Being able to forgive.

Good news guys! Not only are you human, but I’m pretty sure women are too (I think). Because she is human, she is not perfect and is going to make a mistake at some point or another. You have to be able to know how to handle situations like this. Forgiveness is a very big step in this process. You must be able to judge the severity of what she has done for yourself. Keep in mind that people deserve a second chance. We as humans rarely get it right on the first try and feel regret immediately after you do it. You must be able to judge what is fair.

The best part of a relationship is that you both have feelings for each other. These feelings don’t just go away. Take into account that she is the person that you like to be with and that you would do anything to support her. Everyone messes up at some point. Forgiveness is important. If you do not forgive her, things will not be the same. It starts to build up internal anger until one day you can’t take it anymore. Forgiveness is emotionally cleansing and gives you a fresh slate. No relationship should end over a little mistake.

Forgiveness causes strength in a relationship believe it or not. It represents the two of you overcoming an obstacle. Overcoming obstacles help strengthen any relationship and keeps things moving properly. There is always going to be problems in a relationship. It is your choice whether you choose to forgive or not though. Do you choose to take the righteous path of forgiveness, or do you choose to move on? Though you may choose to move on, your feelings for her will always be embedded within you.

When it comes to forgiveness, you must listen to her full story. Keep an open-mind. Find out why she did what she did. Chances are there was a reason. If there wasn't a reason, then chances are it was by accident. Don’t be too quick to judge. She has been their for you, so you have to be their for her. Also, you have to know when she is being truly sincere. If she apologizes without sincerity, that should but a weight in your decision. If a girl is not being sincere to you, then chances are she is not the one for you. Until next time, I leave you with this quote - “It takes a strong person to say ‘I’m sorry’ , but an even stronger person to say ‘I forgive you’ ”.